fvming:

People who can keep their cool when being told off or made fun of are not to be messed with

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August

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This text was reblogged from that-ak and originally by slomps.

"

'Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.'

'The first time you see a woman naked will not be like you imagined. There will be no love, no trust, no intimacy. You won’t even be in the same room as her.

You won’t get to smile as she undresses you and you undress her. You won’t get to calm her nerves with nerves of your own. You won’t get to kiss her, feeling her lips and the edge of her tongue. You won’t get to brush your fingers over the lace of her bra or count her ribs or feel her heartbeat.

The first time you see a woman naked you will be sitting in front of a computer screen watching someone play at intimacy and perform at sex. She will contort her body to please everyone in the room but her. You will watch this woman who is not a woman, pixelated and filtered and customized. She will come ready-made, like an order at a restaurant. The man on the screen will be bigger than you, rougher than you. He will teach you how to talk to her. He will teach you where to put your hands and he will teach you what you’re supposed to like. He will teach you to take what is yours.

You must unlearn this. You must unlearn this twisted sense of love. You must unlearn the definition of pleasure and intimacy you are being taught. Kill this idea of love, this idea of entitlement, this way of scarring one another.’

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this scared me and made me cry and i am almost embarrassed to post this but quite honestly i would rather fight for this rather than anything else.

men and womens value, and the indescribable importance of intimacy

(via fluts)

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August

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This quote was reblogged from lawrawwc and originally by typewriterdaily.

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I’ll never punish my daughter for saying no.

The first time it comes out of her mouth, I’ll smile gleefully. As she repeats “No! No! No!” I’ll laugh, overjoyed. At a young age, she’ll have mastered a wonderful skill. A skill I’m still trying to learn. I know I’ll have to teach her that she has to eat her vegetables, and she has to take a nap. But “No” is not wrong. It is not disobedience.

1. She will know her feelings are valid.
2. She will know that when I no longer guide her, she still has a right to refuse.

The first time a boy pulls her hair after she says no, and the teacher tells her “boys will be boys,” we will go to her together, and explain that my daughter’s body is not a public amenity. That boy isn’t teasing her because he likes her, he is harassing her because it is allowed. I will not reinforce that opinion. If my son can understand that “no means no” so can everyone else’s.

3. She owes no one her silence, her time, or her cooperation.

The first time she tells a teacher, “No, that is wrong,” and proceeds to correct his public school, biased rhetoric, I’ll revel in the fact that she knows her history; that she knows our history. The first time she tells me “No” with the purpose and authority that each adult is entitled, I will stop. I will apologize. I will listen.

4. She is entitled to her feelings and her space. I, even a a parent, have no right to violate them.
5. No one has a right to violate them.

The first time my mother questions why I won’t make her kiss my great aunt at Christmas, I’ll explain that her space isn’t mine to control. That she gains nothing but self doubt when she is forced into unwanted affection. I’ll explain that “no” is a complete sentence. When the rest of my family questions why she is not made to wear a dress to our reunion dinner. I will explain that her expression is her own. It provides no growth to force her into unnecessary and unwanted situation.

6. She is entitled to her expression.

When my daughter leaves my home, and learns that the world is not as open, caring, and supportive as her mother, she will be prepared. She will know that she can return if she wishes, that the real world can wait. She will not want to. She will not need to. I will have prepared her, as much as I can, for a world that will try to push her down at every turn.

7. She is her own person. She is complete as she is.

I will never punish my daughter for saying no. I want “No” to be a familiar friend. I never want her to feel that she cannot say it. She will know how to call on “No” whenever it is needed, or wanted.

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- Lessons I Will Teach, Because the World Will Not — Y.S. (via poetryinspiredbyyou)

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August

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This quote was reblogged from d-r-u-g-g-e-d-u-p-k-i-d-s and originally by poetryinspiredbyyou.

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20

August

768 notes

This photo was reblogged from kool-aid-jammers and originally by lindsavlohan.

hannahjpeg:

similar here


Ugh

hannahjpeg:

similar here

Ugh

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20

August

59,980 notes

This photo was reblogged from riahreah and originally by methpool.

"I still catch myself feeling sad about things that don’t matter anymore."

- Kurt Vonnegut (via battybatty)

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20

August

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This quote was reblogged from riahreah and originally by 13neighbors.

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20

August

375 notes

This photo was reblogged from whospilledthebongwater and originally by burninggreen.

#eyeslow

#eyeslow

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August

#eyeslow

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@tizzzerp

@tizzzerp

19

August

thetoad-smokesdope:

Give up on treating people the way you would like to be treated..8/10 times it wont fucking matter. They’ll shit all over you if they think they can ‘get away with it’.

So treat people how they deserve to be treated that way they will always know, the treatment they get is because of the treatment they give.

19

August

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This text was reblogged from ohgreenw0rld and originally by thetoad-smokesdope.

spiritual-realm:

endearinglove:

girrlscout:

oldcitystreets:

succubiitch:

hannaoliviaway:

almost five years of lovin. And now he sings and plays ukelele songs like “you are my sunshine” for our tiny babe & talks to him/her through my belly button. I’m so sappy and grateful and full-hearted tonight.

so fucking adorable

help meeeeeeeee

Goals

Oh my gosh this is so perfect

omg what beautiful people

18

August

76,998 notes

This photo was reblogged from spiritual-realm and originally by hannaoliviaway.

#me

#me

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18

August

19,118 notes

This photo was reblogged from karmonyhorine and originally by powerburial.

euo:

I am every little girl you ever watched, touched, hurt, screwed, killed.”

Hard Candy (2005) dir. David Slade

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August

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